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Getting Comfortable with Separate Swinging 0

September 19th, 2009

There are different kinds of swinging. If you are familiar with the term “swinging”, you must have already known that there are open swinging and closed swinging. Open swinging is a form of swinging where every participant involved do sexual acts in the same room. Other participants can watch openly or do their own share of sexual acts. Closed swinging is more private, allowing participants to go into separate rooms to enjoy sexual adventures in private. What most people don’t realize is that close swinging is a lot harder than open swinging. In open swinging, both you and your spouse are in the same room. Say you are swinging with another swinging couple. Even when you and your spouse engage different sexual acts you can still watch one another. Closed swinging, on the other hand, removes presence factor from the equation. There is definitely a bigger challenge in closed swinging, and bigger level of trust is needed to overcome the challenge. You shouldn’t approach closed swinging unless you are sure that you can talk about the experiences honestly afterwards and maintain the highest level of trust throughout the process. You need to fully believe that your spouse is acting within the boundaries both of you have set, and you need to make sure you stay within the boundaries as well. Once you are comfortable with separate swinging, it can be very rewarding. The pleasure of telling and hearing stories about each other’s experiences is a turn-on on its own, and it can help you have better sex life even when you are not swinging.